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bookish

16 Monday Mar 2009

Posted by Jane Bretl in good reads, Motherhood, seasons

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bookmobile, books, Caldecott Medal, Newbery Medal, reading

My fascination with books started early; in the summers of the 70’s, I would look forward to the bi-weekly visits of the Bookmobile to my tiny Wisconsin town.  I guess it was literary outreach for the distant corners of the county with no library branches.  (Do bookmobiles even still exist?)

This beloved bookmobile would park in the bank parking lot a short walk from my house.  I can picture the inside of that Rolling Bus of Books as clearly as any other memory of my childhood.  In retrospect, it is amazing how many pounds of books a 57 lb. girl could carry home by herself.  The titles themselves aren’t as clear in my memory;  I read so many books, back to back, that they eventually became onelongsummerstory.

It is possible that I should have spent more time playing outside with real people.

Fast forward to another century, and my fascination for children’s books has not faded.  Before my kids were born, I was collecting books for read-alouds and looking-throughs.  Books that had received the Caldecott Medal for Illustration always seemed like a good place to start.  Then started the early readers and beginning chapter books.  Soon, I was collecting Newbery Medal winners and Newbery Honor Books.  Oh, the world of YA novels!  There is a great list of award winning titles here, including 1922-present.  Of course, sometimes I will pick out children’s books simply because the title, or the cover art, or the subject will jump to be chosen.  Many of our most-thumbed copies have no award other than “Our Favorites”.  There are so many organizations that recognize talented children’s book authors and illustrators;  peruse this list to see many more.  Buy books for kids!

My kid book library is now quite extensive.  I am so lucky and proud to have voracious readers of my own.  As they grow older, it is still a joy to share books with them, albeit in a new way (they read the book first, then recommend it to me).  Someday we will have to decide which books they want to keep for their own libraries, and which ones we will donate.  Or, maybe, I could be the little old lady driving my own bookmobile…?

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TGIF

13 Friday Mar 2009

Posted by Jane Bretl in get along like cats and dogs

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I just don’t know what else I can say about this one.  Come Friday, she enjoys a refreshing beverage as much as the next dog.

prewash

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a real letter

12 Thursday Mar 2009

Posted by Jane Bretl in Writing

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blogs, mail

About an hour after my last post about the mail, I was surfing some of my new blog favorites and found this from Nathalie’s Notes.  Sounds like her mailbox receives the same assortment as most of us, but she says it so beautifully.

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the universe has a sense of humor

12 Thursday Mar 2009

Posted by Jane Bretl in Writing

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Antiques Roadshow, dreams, DVR, fountain pen, humor, Jane Austin, mailbox, published, short story, ultimate HCI Books, universe, wishes

OK, so those of you who have been following along (all three of you), know that I am waiting with bated breath for the copy of the book that includes my first published short story.  It is to arrive “in the mail in March”.  For a couple weeks now, I have been excited to go to the mailbox each day and check the day’s haul.  Some days, I prolong the wait to go to the mailbox just to keep the afternoon interesting.  (Is this some bizarre form of writer’s foreplay?) Occasionally, I’ll also check on Sunday even though I know nothing is there.  I started checking in mid-February, just in case.

This experience is really quite pleasant — it has been a long time since I looked forward to receiving something in the mail.  People don’t send real letters in this day and age, and the publisher’s clearing house does not even send those envelopes anymore (did they go digital or did Ed McMahon die?).  Basically, it is bills, junk mail and catalogues that I can no longer linger over in today’s economy.  It is nice to look forward to something, although I worry what kind of obsessive-compulsive freak I will turn into if (no-when!) I publish a whole book of my very own.

Coincidentally, perhaps, I have started to receive a surprising number of packages in the mailbox, although I have not ordered anything (again, reference economy).  Yesterday, it was another plump, promising looking envelope that contained  a… beautiful fountain pen.  I do not remember ordering a fountain pen; I may have started to “sleep-shop” in some worrisome new way, but I don’t think so.  It was addressed to me, and came with no explanation.

Now, I have always wanted a fountain pen — it seemed to me the most elegant possible way to literally put pen to paper and craft a story.  I would also be able to sign the declaration of independence or other historic document if the need arose to do so.  I had no plans to actually acquire one though, as in reality it is not what one would call practical for everyday use.

I wonder if the universe is just deciding to grant all my random wishes, all in the month of March.  Will a gray kitten appear on my doorstep, mewing and looking for a home?  Will I suddenly lose weight without the bothersome diet and exercise??  Will I get my own DVR remote so I can record Antiques Roadshow and Jane Austin Masterpieces? (WAIT — that happened too but did not arrive in the mailbox.)

Just in case, I have decided to become more purposeful in my thoughts.  Random wishes of the past, I can’t change.  I’ll let you know if I get a pony and a big 10th birthday party next week.  BUT, wishes and dreams for the future — those I get to pick, and I plan to be more careful, and perhaps more specific.  (I did not receive any fountain pen ink.)

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better door than a window

11 Wednesday Mar 2009

Posted by Jane Bretl in Motherhood

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concert

In the mailbox today was a big, plump, promising looking envelope.  It was addressed to E, and contained the (very well padded) CD from his very first choral concert. *Sigh*.  No book.

The concert was very interesting.  Unfortunately, I could not see my kid during the grand finale.  A fine child, who I came to think of as Big Head Todd, completely obstructed my view.  I’m sure he is a very nice young man, but I wished he would move a itsy bit to the left or the right.  Luckily, during the enthusiastic, parent-filled standing O, he bent over in a “YES, we nailed it!” kind of fist pump, and I was finally able to see my star of the show.

yes, he moved

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neutered dog pal

10 Tuesday Mar 2009

Posted by Jane Bretl in get along like cats and dogs, Photography

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dog, friends, neuter

Kenzie has a new friend.  He is very cute.

dog pals

He has a great smile.  And other appealing qualities.

archie smile

They romp and play and get along very, very well.

slirpy smooch

Then, later, it’s nice to kick back and share a stick.

kickin'back

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Dear Sir/Madam

10 Tuesday Mar 2009

Posted by Jane Bretl in Writing

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Miss Snark's First Victim, query letters, rejection

As someone who has been doing query letter revisions lately, I am always on the lookout for good advice.  I was particularly amused by a post on the blog Miss Snark’s First Victim, detailing some fail-safe ways to ensure query rejection.  Writers, enjoy!

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cuckoo, cuckoo

09 Monday Mar 2009

Posted by Jane Bretl in Motherhood, Writing

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cuckoo clock, pendulum

clock worksMy cuckoo clock went bananas.  Every day, I am supposed to reset the winding mechanism by pulling the chains to the top, where they slowly wind down and through some miracle of clock-making, make it run all day (even if it does not keep proper time).

Turns out if the long chains with pinecone-shaped weights become obstructed by a LaGrE pile of tOyS, it will stop running.  The Professor noticed its silence, even though I had been sitting next to it for hours.  When I pulled the chain to restart it, all the cuckoos it missed came rapid-fire jumbling out like some possessed … 100 year old bird.  It had so many accumulated proclamations, I thought it was going to sprain itself.

The clock reminds me of my writing.  When I finally started to write in earnest, the words came tumbling out so fast I thought I was going to pop a brain goiter.  If my energy gets stuck on a large pile of momhood’s clutter, I’m stuck there until I can pull my own chain and get going again.  The kids know when something is off.  And some days, arguably, much of what comes out when I’m working could be cuckoo.  I’ll stop the analogy there.

Tick, tock… keep that pendulum swinging…

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the cowboy, the scholar and the muse

07 Saturday Mar 2009

Posted by Jane Bretl in Writing

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cowboy, muse, scholar

A cowboy, a scholar and a muse walked back into my life one night.  I had just finished reading a book, a novel with characters so compelling, I simply had to read the entire work in one sitting. I turned the last page at 2:00am, my heart in my throat and my head too filled with the story to sleep.

I went downstairs and found some characters of my own.

The first to appear was the cowboy, in his ten gallon hat and suede vest.  As always, he was a man of few words, but his “Hot damn, if it isn’t Miss Koenen” made me laugh so hard in its startling unexpectedness of night, I almost smiled myself right out of my chair.

Then, another brilliantly written story was waiting from the scholar.  In our first meeting in the last 25 years, we “spoke” more words at greater depth than we had in four years of shared experiences, in person.  He made me laugh out loud too, with his sharp wit and insightful turns of phrase.  Now I am eager for more chapters from him (and would like him to guest blog someday soon).

Then, when the middle of the night could not get any more incredible, there was the muse.  I have thought of her so many times in the last 20 years, and wondered how she was and where she was and what she was, but I never put pen to paper to find her myself.  She was my free spirit at a time in my life where I was painfully serious.  About everything.  I looked up, and there she was!  We started ‘talking’, and all of a sudden it was the most natural thing in the world that I wandered downstairs in my jammies at 2:00am and found her there in my house.  She sounds happy, and peaceful, and still fiercely smart.  And then she was gone, and I was alone again in the dark.  But I felt less alone than I have in a long, long time.

Silly, silly, silly me.  I thought facebook wasn’t powerful.  It’s a time machine.

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tour guides

06 Friday Mar 2009

Posted by Jane Bretl in Writing

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blog tour, book tour, Christina Katz, J.A. Konrath

Authors go on book tours to promote their work.  I am always surprised by the stream of authors that make an appearance at the little Barnes & Noble near where I live.  We are off the beaten path, a bit.  They must travel to quite a few stops before this burg rises to the top of the list.

Recently, I learned about blog tours by authors.  Whether this is a truly revolutionary concept, I don’t know;  I had not heard of it, but since I am a newbie to the publishing world, everything is brand-spanking new to me.  Either way, the idea of “traveling” to reach the readers (and potential readers) via blogs seems to be an exciting and potentially game-changing marketing approach for writers.

For me, following these blog tours is like doing a ‘beautiful home tour’ in my favorite city.  Someone else has looked through lots of places and picked ones that were unique in style, content and creativity.  The organizer won’t put a house on the tour that is in C.H.A.O.S. Everything will be neat and tidy and I can just look around as long as I want and find new ideas I may want to try at home.  I get to peek inside some very creative, inspirational, thought-provoking little corners.  I could have found these places on my own, but I would have had to crack open some scary doors. (Do you have any idea how much crap is on the internet??)

Speaking of S-C-A-R-Y, one of the blog tours I am following now is J.A. Konrath, who publishes the blog A Newbie’s Guide to Publishing, and is the author of the Lt. Jack Daniels thriller novel series.  He is promoting his new horror novel AFRAID, which is frankly too scary for me to read, but that is because I am just a big scaredy-pants.  Even without reading his new book, I can tell you that I have already learned a great deal from his own blog, and have thoroughly enjoyed visiting the ones he is picking for his tour.  Whew!  So many ‘houses’ to see!

I am also following the blog cyber-tour of Christina Katz, author of “Writer Mama: How to Raise a Writing Career Alongside Your Kids” and “Get Known Before the Book Deal“.  Her blog, The Writer Mama Riffs, has also been a wonderful source of industry information (and humor), and the blog stops so far in March have been lovely.  Christina’s tour is planned to celebrate the two year anniversary of the release of “Writer Mama”, and it is inspiring to see what all those other writer mamas are accomplishing every day (plus it is always just fun to peek around in someone else’s house).

In the meantime, Kitty continues to wait her turn for some attention.  The In-Box seems a logical place to pass the time while SOMEONE sits reading blogs all day…

kitty in box

So many great blogs, so little time.  Anyone have another blog tour they recommend?

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In 2009, I started this blog to share my sometimes thoughtful, sometimes funny, occasionally irreverent thoughts on motherhood, writing for publication and myriad creatures that got along as cats and dogs.

One day, I felt like stepping away from living out loud for awhile. Eh, life happens.

Fast forward five years -- I'll gloss over the details for now -- save to say that lucky for me an unexpected detour has provided some new material.

So here I am, standing at the corner. I've been here before, wondering which way to go. This time I choose living.

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